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  • johnsontan 4:00 pm on February 16, 2012 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Contradiction, Family Man, Funny Story, Haha, Happiness, Journey, Meaningful Life, Obligation, Phrase, Quotes, Truth   

    If You Are Not Busy Living, You Are Busy Dying 

    I came across the movie “It’s Kind Of A Funny Story” and thought that I heard the phrase:

    “If You Are Not Busy Living, You Are Busy Dying”

    Upon checking the quotes I realised that I must have heard wrongly for the common quote would be “Get busy living or Get busy Dying”

    Somehow what I thought I heard seems to click better with me. I have been reading the book “4-hour work week” and it got me thinking what am I really doing with my life… Over the years as I looked back I know that I have travelled a very interesting journey. I learnt how to take more time in appreciating what I have in life and be thankful that I can live “today” instead of yesterday or tomorrow for the truth is that all of us only live in a moment and every moment past is a moment that is gone.

    It really is a challenge to not think about the future as I do know of the obligation that I have as a family man. Ensuring the happiness and well being of my family is constantly on my mind yet this thought itself makes it hard to live in the “now”. I guess that is one contradiction in life that I still need to figure out, haha or at least find a way to come to terms with it.

    Living and dying may both be a part of our journey. As such, I pray for all living beings to have the strength to live a concious and meaningful life.

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  • johnsontan 10:26 pm on May 17, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Birthday Gift, Boundaries, Favourite Song, , Happy Birthday, Hello World, Internet Marketer, Internet Marketers, Man In The Mirror, Mentality, Michael Jackson, One Of The Guys, Overcoming Fears, Peace To The World, Point In Time, Skateboard, Song Peace, Street Skating, World Doesn, Www Youtube, Youtube Video   

    Have a Skater Mentality 

    Hello World,

    Yesterday was my 26th Birthday, Happy Birthday Johnson!! Haha, it’s been a really good life that I have and I am grateful for it. Today I got myself a little birthday gift called “SoleSkate” as an act of love and courage for myself. This is the official “How to use” Maunal that I got from youtube:

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    Totally cool!

    I have always thought that skateboard is too big for me and this Sole Skate is ideal and is exactly what I am looking for. I tried it out the moment I got home and within the hour I was able to stay on the skate! haha not bad for someone that only tried skatebaord once.

    What was interesting is that I began to admire skaters. I realised that skaters are people who dares to push boundaries by overcoming fears and have a “never give up”/”I will do it if I keep trying” mentality. If the world doesn’t know it yet then I am informing the world right now that I am doing internet marketing, one of the guys that I follow is a skater and a very successful internet marketer. I began to draw the links on why internet marketers are successful in this field that we are in. It is a playing field in which the environment keeps changing and that challenges is a norm. Exactly like how street skating is!

    Haha if there is anything that I like to say I would want to urge anyone who is looking at this to have a skater mentality. Though I am not a guru in any field by any standard at this point in time, I do feel that sometimes the things that I say do make sense… Often then not I would benefit more if I had listen to my own advice ;P So let today be the first day that I follow though with my own advice.

    Before I end this conversation, I will like to bring your attention to a recent favourite song of mine, “Man in the Mirror” by none other than our dearly departed Michael Jackson. Here is a YouTube Video of the Song

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    Peace to the World my friend,

    Yours Faithfully,

    Johnson ;)

    Signed 17th May 2011

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  • johnsontan 10:32 am on July 23, 2010 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Assumption, Billions, Cell Theory, Cells, Collective Consciousness, Different World, God Created Man, God Is The One, Grain Of Sand, Grass, , Mini Version, Smell Taste, Touch God, Universe, Universe cell theory   

    Universe-Cell Theory 

    Have you heard of the saying that “God created man in the image of himself”? What if this is true?

    Every one of us have a mind of our own, a consciousness. We are able to think, process and act independently if we truly want to but often than not we have “rules” or settings that bind us to our roles. Some say that God is the one who is the maker and it is God who had created each and every one of us and everything that we can see, hear, smell, taste and touch. God is all around us and he is in every grass, every rock and every tree. God is the almighty and he is the one that guides us. Our lives belong to God and it is God that can decide when it is time for us to “meet our maker”.

    Assuming that if God made us and image of himself, we are “God” (or at least mini version of God), Think about this question: “What is life?”

    I should be able to safely assume that most people can agree that cells are living things, so a cell is a unit of life. Like us it is able to nourish itself, secrete its waste. A cell is able to grow, reproduce and die like any other living thing.

    Some guru once said that you can understand the language of the universe even by observing a grain of sand because all things are one. We are all connected. And that we can learn everything we need to know and we have all the knowledge in the world because all answers are found in “collective consciousness”.

    Let’s go back to the assumption that we are “God”. The question then becomes: “Are you a living thing or are you a collective living beings?”

    How many cells do you really have in your body? I can’t say for sure but it is a lot. What if every single cell has a consciousness? And that every cell is able to function independently on it’s on. What is there is a whole different world in us, a world that is filled with billions and millions of living cells communicating and interacting with each other. Wouldn’t it look like the world we are in? Where billions of human being going about their daily lives communicating and interacting with each other and yet collectively we are supporting / destroying the life of our planet, our universe or even our “God”.

    Who are you? I asked myself many times and yet I could not get a good answer. Are our hands and legs and eyes and organs and cells us? Or must we have them all before we are who we are? Are we the mind that controls the body, if the mind is no longer detectable by machines we are no longer who we are? Do we have the rights to determine our own life and that we have the rights to choose our life or death?

    All of the questions are complex to me.

    If we are the image of God, we have created life within us, trillions of lives in the form of cells. We have the power to determine their fate. If we cut ourselves, fall on the ground or even blow our nose we are killing hundreds if not thousands of cells; hundreds if not thousands of lives! If all lives are created equally, then we are a sinner, a big sinner.

    We as individuals may have create lives and yes we can be called the “Master”, the “Shepherd” or even the “creator” of those who came from us, but one may argue that there are “free will” in those lives. Yes our subconscious mind may be able to produce a cell that is born in the Heart Universe, planet of the left atrium and country of Mitral (bicuspid) valve. How the daily life of that cell is really the cells “free will”. It can choose to live its destiny, choose to do nothing for the rest of its life or plan to rebel say turning cancerous.

    Just because our technology could not detect a consciousness in a cell doesn’t mean that it does not exist. I vaguely recall that some scientist was able to determine that memory of an individual can be stored in other parts of the body and not just the brain. Maybe the collective consciousness of the cells in our body gave us our consciousness and not the other way around. May it is our collective consciousness that give rise to God and not the other way around?

    If you believe in the evolution approach to life than you would believe that there were only single cell organisms many years ago. And these single cell organisms eventually evolved and became multi-cellular organisms. Two things to take note: 1) cells from those eras are long gone 2) are they really gone? Some people believe that there are reincarnations, that when you die you are born again. If all lives are created equally, then it wouldn’t be too difficult to say that each cell may undergo reincarnation in its own space time.

    At this point there can be many possibilities:

    1. A cell might eventually reincarnation to a human being
    2. A human being might reincarnation to a cell

    Think about it. A cell may not know that it is a cell and that it serves a bigger purpose which is to sustain the body which it came from. It might still go on living on a day to day basis competing with other cells for nourishment and might even be better than the rest of the other cells in its region. But it can’t escape the fact that it will eventually die.

    Human beings may be just like cells, “God’s cells” where we are here with a purpose and yet we can choose how to live our lives. One other question remains:

    If you do not even bother about the cells / lives in your body, what makes you think that God would bother about his?

    After all, we are so small compare to God, aren’t we?

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  • johnsontan 6:06 am on June 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Efficient, Go-Getter, Goals, healthy outlook of life, How to Be Successful, Self-centered, What is in it for me   

    Giving as The New Way To Become Successful 

    How to be successful? That is the question that so many of us ask but very few of us are actually contented to the type of success we are getting right now. Let me say it more directly: WE ARE SUCCESSFUL, WE ARE JUST NOT SATISFIED

    If you want me to share why I think everyone is already successful please leave a comment below.

    For those of you who think you are not successful and want to learn how to, I am recommending this book to you:

    “The Go-Giver” – A Little Story About A Powerful Business Idea by Bob Burg and John David Mann

    In the past I use to think that the world is a nasty place to be in. The so-called “dog-eat-dog” mentality where everyone is out to either get you or to take advantage of you. To be truthful it is really very hard for me as every time I do something I would have to plan 10 steps in advance so that I wouldn’t be someone Else’s next “meal”. Life was stressful as I spent to much time thinking about what would go wrong and the situation that if I fail, no one would come and help me.

    I believed that in the real world one has to be strong and definately have to be the best in order for one to survive and attain success.

    Things weren’t always like that for me. When I was younger, I had a much healthy outlook for life. I trusted my friends, love my family and enjoy the things and events that were happening to me. But like any “normal” human being, I got hurt. So the same classic story of how “because I got hurt and therefore life isn’t a bed of roses” happened to me. (I am sure you heard of that one ya)

    I started to distant myself from friends as I had the mindset that it was pointless to build great relationship with them and realised that I am still open for “backstabbing”. I started to distant from my love ones as I need to build my life and that requires me to be busy. Everytime I do something I would have this question in mind: “What is in it for me?”

    I became very self-centered. Are you self-centered? Looking back I know now that I used to think that I wasn’t but I was. Let’s do a quick assessment. Please answer this question.

    Do you set plans for your goals?

    If you do, my bet is that you are self-centered. (Actually that is a trick question. Everyone, to a certain degree, have to be self-centered otherwise we would have donated all our food to hungry children and die of starvation by now)

    The more important question to answer is “What is so bad about being self-centered?”

    I personally think that there is nothing wrong to be self centered. Just that it might not be the most efficient way to help you to succeed. I would like to share more with you, but right now it’s 6 in the morning so need to catch some sleep before waking up. Fill you in in my next post.

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